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		<title>By: azeyrtyui</title>
		<link>http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/puas-are-evil#comment-5062</link>
		<dc:creator>azeyrtyui</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 12:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>in sex and the city tootip of t he book.</description>
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		<title>By: chocolatemoose21</title>
		<link>http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/puas-are-evil#comment-4379</link>
		<dc:creator>chocolatemoose21</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 04:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Its about learning how to Master yourself, Not control others!&quot; amazing line which is sticking with me, as I delve further and further into your archives Neil. Gratzi for the amazing information. There is more gold on the subject of Mastering yourself in the book 18 Minutes by Peter Bregman 
-Ares</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Its about learning how to Master yourself, Not control others!&#8221; amazing line which is sticking with me, as I delve further and further into your archives Neil. Gratzi for the amazing information. There is more gold on the subject of Mastering yourself in the book 18 Minutes by Peter Bregman<br />
-Ares</p>
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		<title>By: reho33</title>
		<link>http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/puas-are-evil#comment-3417</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 04:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s great that more women are reading this book and &quot;getting the spirit&quot; of the thing. But we all know that women cannot use the material the same as men so another &#039;game&quot; will have to be created and tailored to the women so that they can have more options. PUA in and of itself is not &quot;wrong&quot; or &quot;immoral&quot;. It is only a skill, like good salesmanship. In the long run, more people will get together and form good, long lasting, relationships........isn&#039;t that all we want anyhow? BTW, I prefer the term &quot; ladies man&quot; as opposed to PUA.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s great that more women are reading this book and &#8220;getting the spirit&#8221; of the thing. But we all know that women cannot use the material the same as men so another &#8216;game&#8221; will have to be created and tailored to the women so that they can have more options. PUA in and of itself is not &#8220;wrong&#8221; or &#8220;immoral&#8221;. It is only a skill, like good salesmanship. In the long run, more people will get together and form good, long lasting, relationships&#8230;&#8230;..isn&#8217;t that all we want anyhow? BTW, I prefer the term &#8221; ladies man&#8221; as opposed to PUA.</p>
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		<title>By: reho33</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 04:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I loved the book &quot;The Game&quot;. It has the uncanny ability to suck you in and keep you there until the end. I could not put it down and just had to read it in one sitting. I think the best think to do is to learn all you can from as many people as you can. Then the hardest thing to do is to internalize all of the information and custom make your own version of &quot;the game&quot; that gets you the best results for you. And don&#039;t worry about &quot;what people think or say&quot;.......their not the ones that have your best intrests at heart.Just decide that you will be who you will be in your heart and ......&quot;go for it&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved the book &#8220;The Game&#8221;. It has the uncanny ability to suck you in and keep you there until the end. I could not put it down and just had to read it in one sitting. I think the best think to do is to learn all you can from as many people as you can. Then the hardest thing to do is to internalize all of the information and custom make your own version of &#8220;the game&#8221; that gets you the best results for you. And don&#8217;t worry about &#8220;what people think or say&#8221;&#8230;&#8230;.their not the ones that have your best intrests at heart.Just decide that you will be who you will be in your heart and &#8230;&#8230;&#8221;go for it&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: tentacle</title>
		<link>http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/puas-are-evil#comment-2788</link>
		<dc:creator>tentacle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think there might be a commercial interest here. When i was awkward with the ladies, i spent most of my energy on making money and buying the newest computer hardware. Now that i&#039;m sexually happy and socially respected, i couldn&#039;t care less about the age of my notebook ;)

The intention might be as simple as that: 

It&#039;s fucking hard to useless junk to a successful, social and satisfied man. So keep him unsatisfied.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think there might be a commercial interest here. When i was awkward with the ladies, i spent most of my energy on making money and buying the newest computer hardware. Now that i&#8217;m sexually happy and socially respected, i couldn&#8217;t care less about the age of my notebook ;)</p>
<p>The intention might be as simple as that: </p>
<p>It&#8217;s fucking hard to useless junk to a successful, social and satisfied man. So keep him unsatisfied.</p>
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		<title>By: DeeDee</title>
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		<dc:creator>DeeDee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 12:01:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A female perspective and what the negative media should learn.

The game is not a rape manual, it does not take away my right to say no. The thing is, I want to meet guys, go on dates and have great sex too, but I don’t and do you know why? Alot of guys who approach me have NOT studied or even attempted to improve their Game.

The last guy to approach me did so from behind at a bar, ‘Wayhey there gorgeous let me buy you a drink’ followed with a not so gentle slap on the arse. Another time a guy grabbed my arm with both of his hands as I was leaving my local pub, leaned into me and said ‘Where do you think you’re going?’ I literally ran away from him and it took all my self control not to react violently in both cases. 

I would love a guy to start an interesting conversation with me, to have the confidence to speak to my face not my chest, to know when I’m comfortable putting their arm around my shoulders and to know when I’m simply not interested. 

In short the game doesn’t not teach a guy to trick a girl into bed. It only opens up the possibility for her to like him enough to take it further. You are always going to get guys who are a douche and tries to manipulate girls into bed but guess what? These guys are everywhere and learning to deal with them is just part of growing up for women. It’s horrible, it’s unfair, but hey...life ain’t easy. 

Sorry for the long post guys, it’s something that’s been stewing in my head ever since I read Neil’s book and realised I really wish more men in my area would make more effort. Now I just need to figure out how to turn what I’ve learnt from Neil to my own advantage. PUA guide for girls please?

Much love and success to you all

Dee x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A female perspective and what the negative media should learn.</p>
<p>The game is not a rape manual, it does not take away my right to say no. The thing is, I want to meet guys, go on dates and have great sex too, but I don’t and do you know why? Alot of guys who approach me have NOT studied or even attempted to improve their Game.</p>
<p>The last guy to approach me did so from behind at a bar, ‘Wayhey there gorgeous let me buy you a drink’ followed with a not so gentle slap on the arse. Another time a guy grabbed my arm with both of his hands as I was leaving my local pub, leaned into me and said ‘Where do you think you’re going?’ I literally ran away from him and it took all my self control not to react violently in both cases. </p>
<p>I would love a guy to start an interesting conversation with me, to have the confidence to speak to my face not my chest, to know when I’m comfortable putting their arm around my shoulders and to know when I’m simply not interested. </p>
<p>In short the game doesn’t not teach a guy to trick a girl into bed. It only opens up the possibility for her to like him enough to take it further. You are always going to get guys who are a douche and tries to manipulate girls into bed but guess what? These guys are everywhere and learning to deal with them is just part of growing up for women. It’s horrible, it’s unfair, but hey&#8230;life ain’t easy. </p>
<p>Sorry for the long post guys, it’s something that’s been stewing in my head ever since I read Neil’s book and realised I really wish more men in my area would make more effort. Now I just need to figure out how to turn what I’ve learnt from Neil to my own advantage. PUA guide for girls please?</p>
<p>Much love and success to you all</p>
<p>Dee x</p>
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		<title>By: diegomartinez6933</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 05:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neil, you are changing the status quo. The people in power believe in that men who work hard, get to play hard. What&#039;s the point of all men can get any woman they want? The people in power want to keep all the women to themselves..

Or maybe those producers have had bad experiences with the PU community. Who knows?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neil, you are changing the status quo. The people in power believe in that men who work hard, get to play hard. What&#8217;s the point of all men can get any woman they want? The people in power want to keep all the women to themselves..</p>
<p>Or maybe those producers have had bad experiences with the PU community. Who knows?</p>
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		<title>By: Apostolis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Apostolis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 10:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its a Big shotgun-bazooka Neg. On all of us.
They try to lower our value because the are Afraid of losing theis. Fear turns very quickly to Hate.
And its sex in the way... Its their daughters and wives they are afraid about.. reasonable, isnt it? they are thinking
&quot;Maybe they will have sex with a man that hasn&#039;t finished Harvard or doesnt have 1,000,000 dollars account... Maybe they will get pregnant... Maybe i cannot controll who my daughter will marry... Wait! what&#039;s that Korean guy doing on my wife????&quot;
Its kinda like a RSD technique used by TD on you Neil during Project Holiwood. No matter how much you try to prove the opposite, they will just drug you down.

But as in amonomyth, restriction and opposition exists for evolution

The community is always one step ahead and it has to keep on that way, so it cant be hit by the mudspillers

Also the last paragraph of your article  Neil, anout encouraging other people,  is the most  important one.

Please write another article about, expanding this topic a bit on further</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its a Big shotgun-bazooka Neg. On all of us.<br />
They try to lower our value because the are Afraid of losing theis. Fear turns very quickly to Hate.<br />
And its sex in the way&#8230; Its their daughters and wives they are afraid about.. reasonable, isnt it? they are thinking<br />
&#8220;Maybe they will have sex with a man that hasn&#8217;t finished Harvard or doesnt have 1,000,000 dollars account&#8230; Maybe they will get pregnant&#8230; Maybe i cannot controll who my daughter will marry&#8230; Wait! what&#8217;s that Korean guy doing on my wife????&#8221;<br />
Its kinda like a RSD technique used by TD on you Neil during Project Holiwood. No matter how much you try to prove the opposite, they will just drug you down.</p>
<p>But as in amonomyth, restriction and opposition exists for evolution</p>
<p>The community is always one step ahead and it has to keep on that way, so it cant be hit by the mudspillers</p>
<p>Also the last paragraph of your article  Neil, anout encouraging other people,  is the most  important one.</p>
<p>Please write another article about, expanding this topic a bit on further</p>
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