Comments on: What Separates A Winner From A Loser Is… http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil-strauss/what-separates-a-winner-from-a-loser-is-2/ Blog of Neil Strauss, the three-time New York Times best-selling author Fri, 10 Sep 2010 05:53:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: thatguy;) http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil-strauss/what-separates-a-winner-from-a-loser-is-2/#comment-281 thatguy;) Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:16:52 +0000 http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil-strauss/what-separates-a-winner-from-a-loser-is-2/#comment-281 i totally agree agree tho no one wants to around some one that's need emotional satisfaction, it should be given to others. if that makes any scence i think you should teach some workshops on how to play the wii lol. first off its a good ice break when you actually have a girl come over after a first date or after a club/bar. it makes for a good physical activity and competitiveness. ive always had good luck with the wii, well wii sports works the best. i totally agree agree tho no one wants to around some one that’s need emotional satisfaction, it should be given to others. if that makes any scence
i think you should teach some workshops on how to play the wii lol. first off its a good ice break when you actually have a girl come over after a first date or after a club/bar. it makes for a good physical activity and competitiveness. ive always had good luck with the wii, well wii sports works the best.

]]> By: PureStrategy http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil-strauss/what-separates-a-winner-from-a-loser-is-2/#comment-274 PureStrategy Tue, 05 Jan 2010 09:44:11 +0000 http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil-strauss/what-separates-a-winner-from-a-loser-is-2/#comment-274 From what you've written, it seems like it's all about coming across as being real, and genuine. Who really wants to be around someone that's try trying to suck up to them? The problem is that so many people think of hot girls as some sort of treasure, but they're just people. Negs to me just seem like a light reminder to a girl that they're a person like the rest of us. I love the philosophy of bettering others lives. I remember I was in town a while ago and saw a girl walking alone. Approach Anxiety got the better of me; it was a perfect situation to be a gentleman and offer her some company. She ended up getting harassed by a bum and I ended up running up and telling him to f*ck off. Moral of the story is that it's not sleazy to talk to girls. When you could make a positive difference in someone's life go for it. It might just make you both better off ;) From what you’ve written, it seems like it’s all about coming across as being real, and genuine.

Who really wants to be around someone that’s try trying to suck up to them?

The problem is that so many people think of hot girls as some sort of treasure, but they’re just people. Negs to me just seem like a light reminder to a girl that they’re a person like the rest of us.

I love the philosophy of bettering others lives. I remember I was in town a while ago and saw a girl walking alone. Approach Anxiety got the better of me; it was a perfect situation to be a gentleman and offer her some company. She ended up getting harassed by a bum and I ended up running up and telling him to f*ck off.

Moral of the story is that it’s not sleazy to talk to girls. When you could make a positive difference in someone’s life go for it. It might just make you both better off ;)

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