by Neil | 9 comments

On How the Mind Works

On How the Mind Works
When cavemen made love, they didn’t need pillow talk. But today? When cavemen have been relegated to commercials for car insurance? We have to ask ourselves how greatly males and females have evolved since those days in communicating our most primitive wants and needs. The answer may or may not...
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by Neil | 19 comments

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
“Self-esteem” is a word loaded with different implications: to some people, it calls to mind the participation-trophy-philosophy of youth soccer, where every player is an MVP, even if he scores on his own goal. To other people, “self-esteem” is a new-age YOU word demanding that YOU turn Yourself...
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by Neil | 3 comments

Vigilante of The Week

Vigilante of The Week
When I first moved to New York as a teenager, I remember seeing an old Vietnam vet at 4 a.m. one morning in St. Marks Place, crouching at the base of a streetlight. And he was meticulously laying small tiles onto the base of the light, in an elaborate design. Afterward, I started looking at the bases of...
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by JGatz | 23 comments

Talent Doesn’t Matter

Talent Doesn’t Matter
When we watch a truly great athlete, musician, actor, or even someone supremely successful with women, we have a tendency to think their skill level must come from one of two ways. Either they’ve worked incredibly hard or they were simply born with this extraordinary amount of talent. However, in Talent is...
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by Neil | 4 comments

Guest Tastemaker of the Week: The Mofessor

Guest Tastemaker of the Week: The Mofessor
Guest blogger and Inner Circler MOFESSOR takes over the Loop today with a few of his personal favorites in arts & culture. Here are his recommendations: 1. Momus, Pop Star Throughout the ‘80s and ‘90s, Momus adopted a thrift store array of musical styles while simultaneously populating his songs with...
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by Neil | 212 comments

A Seducer’s Library: The Top Game Books

A Seducer’s Library: The Top Game Books
Still out on the road doing research for the next book, but I took some time off to prepare an important list for those of you on your own Game-related self-improvement journey. Many people who’ve read The Game want to know what books influenced me as I was learning. And I’ve often recommended some of...
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