12 Ways You Can Be A Great Pickup Artist Without Saying A Word

Neil StraussThe Game17 Comments

I can’t tell you how many times that I am asked how to run the Game despite a language barrier.

Once again, the answer comes from Neil’s archives…


Style writes:

Here, never posted before, is my PICK UP WITHOUT words routine. enjoy all.

1. Do you speak English?

A. If yes, do regular opener.

B. If no, do regular opener.

  • If they understand opener, continue
  • If they don’t understand, go to #2 below

2. Do cologne opener (gesturing rather than speaking), with marks on wrist.

3. Thank her, then show her something visual: a cigarette vanish or arm-twisting illusion.

4. If she is a good sport, draw a picture of her on your notepad. Express positive feelings about her energy in it, visually. Draw an arrow pointing it to her.

5. Give her the notebook. As she turns it around, cross out arrow and point it in the other direction (so that it is still towards her).

6. Now give her a pencil and a fresh page.

7. If she doesn’t write anything, make yawn gesture. If yes, cool.

8. Introduce yourself, gesture that her hands are soft. Put them against your face.

9. Have her feel the softness of your hands.

10. Look in her eyes, and kiss her hand, working your way up. Always look in eyes between each kiss.

11. If rejected, retreat jokingly with kisses (all the way down the arm, Bug Bunny-style, like a film being played backwards very fast). If accepted, kiss.

12. Fractionate if you want by modifying drawings and kino and magic and jokes.

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17 Comments on “12 Ways You Can Be A Great Pickup Artist Without Saying A Word”

  1. Just got back from China. You can communicate a lot with out words. Having high value is important. Don’t be too interested, but be interested nonetheless. The pickups I put the least work into turned out the best day two’s. Go figure….. Maybe cause I left and demonstrated really high value. Not sure. Use your eyes. They can communicate a lot. Try dancing. No words necessary. Works great. Make a motion as if asking to dance or come here. Not 100% effective but there are always more girls that will accept. They may be tired on not feel like dancing. Move on. Photo routines are nice to. You don’t need a lot of words.

    I can’t wait to travel again and try out Neil’s ideas. They look cool

  2. Awesome Tips, I don’t travel to other countries to have experiences like that…however..I do know that there is more to the power of touch then words…just being able to touch someone on the shoulder in a non creepy way really brings down the guard of someone.

    -Trace Loft

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