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Be What They Expect

“Jim has this gorgeous little honey on the side,” he said. “Says she’s his guilty pleasure.” “Sounds fun. And complicated,” I said. “I love fun, but I hate complicated more than I like fun.” “Oh, I get it. You’re one of those guys who...

Valentine’s Day Aphrodisiacs for Two

So you’ve got that special someone and you want to cook dinner for them on Valentine’s day… but what to cook? Something special, out of the ordinary, and something that screams romance. You need to think aphrodisiacs. Aphrodisiacs should incite passion and lust. The Romans believed the best...

No Date, No Problem: How to Have an Unforgettable Valentine’s Day

“Are you going to get your swerve on tonight?” I ask this question to my friends, and I always get a kick out of their responses. Some say, “Yeah! I will get my swerve on!” others say, “No, not tonight,” and still others say, “What exactly do you mean by...

How to Be the Valentine: Lessons from Ms. Robinson of The Graduate (1967)

Valentine’s Day tends to get lost in the holiday shuffle for single men, and sometimes, even for coupled men who’d rather relive the NFL postseason than make a reservation for a restaurant with menus in cursive font. Maybe you have a problem with Valentine’s because you see the holiday...

Your Valentine’s Day PUA Plan

Valentine’s Day is to pick up artist what the Alaskan salmon run is to grizzlies. So, get out there and stick your paw in a stream. Single ladies will be out with their girlfriends in force, avoiding the loneliness and phone calls from their mothers that go with staying at home on the day that...

Quantifying Relationship Value

Within six months of solidifying my game, I was off the market. I got lucky on a lot of levels – I closed a girl way out of my league and had the opportunity to keep her pretty much to myself long enough to convince her to marry me. That was 14 years ago. Since that time, I’ve spent a lot of time...

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