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Help A Brother Out: One-itis, Indian-Style

What do you do when you have one-itis for a girl you’re not attracted to, who has a boyfriend? Give this brother your best advice in the comments section below. Dear Neil, First off, I just want to tell you thank you. I was an AFC before I read The Game, and that book opened my eyes to a whole new world. I...

Food Game (aka The Rhubarb Sarge)

“If a man can cook, the women will come.” —Spike Spencer We’ve all heard the old line about the fastest way to a man’s heart being through his stomach. I’m here to tell you that it can definitely work the other way around as well. Ladies love food. Besides that obligatory first date or two when...

Help A Brother Out: When a Celebrity Wants Your Girlfriend

What do you do when a celebrity number-closes your girlfriend? Help him out with your best advice in the comments section below. Neil, Seriously, this happened. There was this first-runner up of a world-wide beauty pageant who was a fan of a world-renowned band that’s having a concert in her country....

Inner Game: The Benefits of Journaling

Keeping a journal will not only help improve your game, it will also improve your overall mental health, increase your level of life satisfaction, and keep you alive longer. But don’t take my word for it. Just do a quick search on Google Scholar for “mental health benefits of journaling” and check out...

Reader Question of the Week: Who Pays On a Date?

I get so many questions every week from readers, that I thought it would be fun to present some of them here and get opinions from my Inner Circle. This first one is from a guy named Daniel and you can let him know what you think in the comments section below. Hint: The correct answer isn’t...

Overcoming Approach Anxiety

This is a guest post from self-development blogger Steve Pavlina that was brought to my attention by a reader. Here Steve discusses the age-old issue of approach anxiety from his perspective. So enjoy another take on a very common problem… Several months ago I was speaking with my friend Morty...

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